Dear Lady Love,
The other night some friends and I were talking over a glass of wine and the topic of sexual fantasies came up. We began sharing some of the desires we’ve been keeping to ourselves, or that we’ve only shared or experienced with our partner. It was interesting to learn that most of them felt ashamed about their fantasies. They believed that the things they wanted to try were too over the top, or that their boyfriend wouldn’t find them exciting.
One friend, who is very dominant outside of the bedroom, has been in a relationship for five years and never had the confidence to tell her man what she fantasizes about — or even how to talk to him about it.
She was absolutely horrified at the thought of admitting to the things she thought about while pleasuring herself, such as being spanked or completely and utterly dominated. It has even gotten to the point that, during sex, she is unable to reach orgasm without creating an elaborate fantasy in her mind (and it’s usually with someone who isn’t her partner) because she finds it difficult to associate him with being dominant.
It’s only when she feels like she has no control, that she can relax and reach orgasm.
How can she be more open about her fantasies with her partner?
Her Problem, My Curiosity
via Lady Love: the Secret Fantasies of a Young, Passive Woman – Knoworthy.
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That said, she may feel like she is pressuring her other half or will potentially offend him by asking him to explore new sexual ground. Too bad!
AND SEE HOW IT FLIES THE OTHER WAY!
That said, HE may feel like HE is pressuring HIS other half or will potentially offend HER by asking HER to explore new sexual ground. Too bad!
THE MARK OF A FEMI-NAZI!
Here’s the thing to remember: Most men are pigs
AND LATER…
This is a two-way street, so she also needs to be open to his fantasies as well. She needs to give him the same respect he’s giving her. This doesn’t mean she should try something that doesn’t turn her on, but there is a polite way of saying, “I’m not comfortable doing that,” without sounding judgmental.
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